5 Things to Pay Attention to if You Want to Know Someone’s True Character
<p>Ever gone on a date only to come back home and think:</p>
<p><em>‘’I have no idea what they’re really like’’?</em></p>
<p>Same here.</p>
<p>One of the guys I dated was the opposite — he was convinced after just one date that I was the love of his life.</p>
<p>The thing is: you can’t conclude after one date what someone is really like. It takes time to get to know someone. But the problem isn’t time.</p>
<p>We are the problem. We are quick to jump to conclusions. We often don’t allow ourselves time to get to know someone because <a href="https://thedecisionlab.com/reference-guide/psychology/the-first-impression-bias" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">our first impressions</a> overpower us. Whenever we meet someone new, we want to present our <em>best</em> selves. Sometimes we succeed. Sometimes anxiety takes over. In both cases, we’re not showing our <em>true </em>selves.</p>
<p>What’s our problem? We’re all asking each other the wrong questions. In the corporate world, we ask questions like</p>
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