Statistically, You Will Marry the Wrong Person. Here’s Why.

Once upon a time, I met the person I’d been asking the universe for. We even met in the exact way I would have wanted to. I was on a solo rock-climbing road trip and through a series of fateful and unlikely events, we happened to be the only two people staying on a remote farm. The first evening we met, we had a deep conversation late into the night. From that moment on, we were joined at the hip. We had a roaring adventure — climbing, making love, and road-tripping our way through the country. We poured our souls out and helped each other through tough times. By the end of that road trip, I had committed to moving to his state. It seemed like the perfect fairy tale. And yet, it wasn’t. There wasn’t a single moment where I was emotionally secure but there were many moments where I felt deeply lonely. It was confusing. Wasn’t this exactly what I wanted? I realized now that I had told the universe what I wanted to do in a relationship but not how I wanted to feel. Outwardly — we had the same lifestyle goals, the same passions, and the same interests. Inwardly — we communicated feelings differently, resolved conflicts in polar opposite ways, and had mindsets that didn’t align. We broke up. When asked, I couldn’t quite express what was wrong, but I knew that nothing felt quite right. <a href="https://betterhumans.pub/statistically-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person-heres-why-17931d99e9e0">Read More</a>