Tag: caring

There’s more to caring than working long hours

I came across a tweet by former Netflix engineer Alex Castillo that reflects on the value of caring at work. Alex recounts how the team he had just joined at the streaming giant discovered a broken legacy app on a Friday and managed to fix everything by the following Monday. The twee...

There’s more to caring than working long hours

I came across a tweet by former Netflix engineer Alex Castillo that reflects on the value of caring at work. Alex recounts how the team he had just joined at the streaming giant discovered a broken legacy app on a Friday and managed to fix everything by the following Monday. The twee...

How I Stopped Caring About What Other People Think

People are plagued by the fear of opinions. It’s weird, right? Opinions aren’t real. You can’t feel them. You can’t hear them. Yet you perceive that they exist. I used to be massively insecure about many things. My height, even though I’m tall. ...

The Inconvenience of Caring.

This phrase was muttered, moaned, or screamed at me on countless occasions during my childhood. As I aged, it spawned a mantra that grotesquely grew from within: ‘Your feelings are not ok. Change them. Bury them.” Understood. I’ve always had an affinity with childre...

Doing The Work for a Fresh Perspective on Caring for My Mom

Just finished reading    In it, she writes, “Along my spiritual path, I often encounter periods of rapid growth and learning. These periods typically follow a difficult situation, decision, or relationship I’m attempting to navigate.” Nothing like a rough pat...

Caring Can Cost Too Much — I Can Only Support So Many Causes at Once

Because of the social contract, our responsibilities to each other form a fundamental part of our society. We fulfill our end of the contract by paying taxes, being responsible members of society by living within the laws, and helping build up our community amongst other things. And in retur...

The Inconvenience of Caring.

“You’re way too sensitive for your own good.” This phrase was muttered, moaned, or screamed at me on countless occasions during my childhood. As I aged, it spawned a mantra that grotesquely grew from within: ‘Your feelings are not ok. Change them. Bury them.&r...

How I Stopped Caring About What Other People Think

People are plagued by the fear of opinions. It’s weird, right? Opinions aren’t real. You can’t feel them. You can’t hear them. Yet you perceive that they exist. I used to be massively insecure about many things. My height, even though I’m tall. ...

Fiercely Caring

The Big Red went to a Catholic all-boys school in Newport, Kentucky. He enjoyed sports but never fantasized about playing in the NBA. In fact, during his freshman year, he decided to quit basketball after an argument with his coach. Nevertheless, by his junior year, Cowens grew to 6’ 6” ...