Miss Independent Had Another Dream

I’m a SAHM now, it’s messy and rewarding. Guess what though? My husband takes care of me, it’s a balance of chaos and taking timeout. I have hustle guilt but that a side effect of being self reliant. He encourages me everyday to do what I love, success will happen eventually he always says. When I hear “well travelled” for me it means single, well-established in your career probably mid-thirties or you have a family with kids a tad bit older to manage when travelling. But for the sake of this post let’s take a look at what being independent means as a singleton these days, in this world we are living in and the things that take place in our daily lives. For me, my thoughts were always to marry my best friend and start a family. But it also meant that before I get to meet this person I am going to make the most of what I have achieved and enjoy it. That is exactly what I did. By the time I found my bestie and settled down I had already achieved plenty, did the social scene and became the butterfly in my own way so I felt content. Today, being Miss Independent is tougher in my opinion. If I dissect it logically let's take a look at a simple example of how it's not what it seems. Loneliness is a deep one but a real one. When you are having a bad day and you need to offload, are you going to do this on your own? Probably not, you are going to turn to someone you trust and who cares for you. Your village, therapists or whoever it may be. Which means you are dependent on someone right? Their advice or opinion. That shoulder. <a href="https://medium.com/@rushana.sam/are-we-still-miss-independent-ing-3c20fb870b96">Visit Now</a>