ARE THESE CHARACTERS ACTUALLY NORMAL? OR WE’VE JUST NORMALIZE THEM.

<p>We can all agree that a lot of things that are not really ideal have been normalized in our society today. From places to things and most importantly, characters.</p> <p>There are somethings we now see as &#39;normal&#39; that are actually characters born out of trauma. We made these things normal even though they are an indicator of the presence of previously unhealed trauma.</p> <p>Let&#39;s talk about some of them;</p> <p><strong>1. DIFFICULTY TRUSTING OTHERS</strong></p> <p>Its now common narrative, &quot;Men are scum&quot; &quot;trust women at your own peril&quot; &quot;trust no one, even yourself&quot; everyone now tosses these words like they are nothing or like they are the ideal.</p> <p>But everyone is ignoring the fact that words like these come from hurt people. Someone who has never or rarely been let down wouldn&#39;t come out in the open and brag about the fact that they have lost their ability to trust. A person who hasn&#39;t faced constant disappointment wouldn&#39;t tell you that trusting was a bad thing.</p> <p>It is healthy to trust people. But people who&#39;ve been let down severally or have seen others being let down constantly probably wouldn&#39;t believe that.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/@elpwetty/are-these-characters-actually-normal-or-weve-just-normalize-them-2de2af864a0c"><strong>Learn More</strong></a></p>