11 counterintuitive ways to improve your life (no one talks about these)
<p>None of the ideas I’m about to share with you came from any self-help book.</p>
<p>(Ok, maybe a couple).</p>
<p>But it’s only through being immersed in the beautiful strangeness of life that these lessons can be felt, seen, and used to see the truth of them.</p>
<p>Funnily, none of these are ‘counterintuitive’ when you take a closer look…</p>
<h1>1. The fewer risks you take, the more dangerous life becomes.</h1>
<p>You already know in your gut why this is. Creating security for yourself is indeed essential.</p>
<p>But the real rewards come to those who are willing to stick their head above the seething masses.</p>
<p>If you seek to fit in, you will get what everyone else has: the illusion of security veiling a life of quiet desperation.</p>
<p>More than anything else, risk strengthens you — and strength will protect you.</p>
<h1>2. The less you try to be confident, the more confident you become.</h1>
<p>True natural confidence is that which arises in you without pressure.</p>
<p>When we try to be confident, we become self-conscious, which is the last thing you need to be and feel confident.</p>
<p>Confidence is an act of letting go.</p>
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