Tag: advice

Stop Calling Things Too Sentimental

They told me she hadn’t eaten in a week. That she’d just said the day before how much she’d love a bagel, of all things. I didn’t know that last August when I bought a dozen and left them, warm and fresh, in the community kitchen at hospice one morni...

I Have Some Advice For the Incel Population

One thing I keep hearing more and more lately that I was unfamiliar with until recently is the term “Incel”. I first heard it when my kids laughing about it, as it related to some funny joke they were cracking up about. Upon further review, I found out what the term “Incel&rdquo...

I Will Turn 42 This Year, and Here’s Some Disturbing Advice for People in Their 20s

I’ll get right to the point. I will share 20 bitter lessons that the sooner you learn in Life, the better off you will be. I do because I wish someone had shared them with me in my 20s — they would have saved me a lot of pain, disappointment, and suffering. Let’s start ...

Dating Advice: Should You Marry Your Filipino Girlfriend?

Let’s say you’ve been dating your current Filipino girlfriend for about 6 months now. The romance is still going strong and you’re thinking about popping the big question. But you’re not sure just yet. One of the bigger questions in your mind is “Is my Filipino girlf...

What’s wrong with the advice to dress for your age

Once you look at options for age 50 and up, they get really crazy. Apparently, everyone should have a white blazer, a little black dress, a nice handbag, low heels, flats, bright colors, and dresses that come below the knee. Cottons, linens, and cashmere are recommended. Jewelry should be tastefu...

I Will Turn 42 This Year, and Here’s Some Disturbing Advice for People in Their 20s

I’ll get right to the point. I will share 20 bitter lessons that the sooner you learn in Life, the better off you will be. I do because I wish someone had shared them with me in my 20s — they would have saved me a lot of pain, disappointment, and suffering. Let’s start ...

Advice From My Century

My dad is 103 years old; my grandson is three. Exactly a hundred years separate my father from his great-grandson. You would wonder what kind of advice my Dad could give his great-grandson to guide his life. So many events pass through an hourglass that large, that finding a pattern in the grains...

Life is Full of Advice — What is the Problem Then?

Wherever we go Whatever we do We can’t stay away from getting advice People who care for us always advice People want us to grow and get the benefit of their experiences. Therefore, they advise. Wise ones always listen to the advice of the people. Why not? They are the ...

‘Do What You Love’ is The Cruelest Advice You Can Give Someone

They surprise you with a birthday cake. Confetti sprinkles, candles, and a card signed by thirty people. Playful memes in your inbox. Pats on the back are jocular, familiar. They ask after your family, know the names and ages of your children. Maybe they even know about the fertility treatments, the...

How to deal with judgmental people: Advice from a sign spinner.

“I’m minding my own business watching some film, trying to get ready,” Deion told his players. “Trying to get out here and be the best coach I can be. And I look up and I read some bulljunk that they done said about us. Once again, why would you wanna talk about us when we...

How to Know Which Financial Advice to Take and Which to Ignore

The vast majority of us are dealing with a pretty constant case of information overload. It’s been estimated that an average person living today processes as much as 74 GB of information on a daily basis: roughly the amount of information that the brain of a highly educated person...

‘Do What You Love’ is The Cruelest Advice You Can Give Someone

They surprise you with a birthday cake. Confetti sprinkles, candles, and a card signed by thirty people. Playful memes in your inbox. Pats on the back are jocular, familiar. They ask after your family, know the names and ages of your children. Maybe they even know about the fertility treatments, the...

Live Below Your Means Is Bad Advice; Here Is What To Do Instead

We all have heard about that phrase at some point in our lives. Living below your means is one of the most common advice you read when you start learning personal finance. This financial philosophy suggests that you should spend less than you earn and avoid excessive or unnecessary expenses. I...

“Thoughts are Not Feelings” is Shitty Psychological Advice

If you have been in therapy before, or have ever picked up a cognitive behavioral or dialectical behavioral therapy book, you have likely encountered the adage that “thoughts are not feelings.” This observation is often intended to help a therapy client distinguish between their ...

Title: “Recognizing Red Flags: When to Seek Medical Advice”

Knowing when to seek medical advice is a crucial aspect of proactive healthcare. While minor symptoms may often resolve on their own, certain red flags signal the need for prompt attention from healthcare professionals. Understanding these warning signs can help individuals prioritize their well-bei...

3 Reasons Why “Write Like You Talk” Isn’t Great Advice After All

That’s what will help you better connect with your audience, after all, people crave realness. Although I immigrated to the US when I was 14 years old, I managed to learn the language within a few years, and by the time I was in college, I was already taking honors writing classes. Websi...

Modal Verbs : How to Give Order and Advice

Use “had better” to give strong or urgent advice that can have negative consequences if it’s not followed. Regret awaits those who fail to follow the advice. We also use “had better” to talk about the right thing to do. For example : You had better leave...