You’re Only as Good as Your Person Is

I’ve noticed over the years that couples often are quite similar to each other. Mainly, in regard to how good each person is as a human being. It’s been rare that I’ve noticed a truly wonderful, caring, charming person being in a long-term relationship with a horrible person. It doesn’t usually work out, long-term. Perhaps for a bit. But then the better of the two usually wisens up and leaves. This is not to say I haven’t seen mismatched or uneven couples before. I’ve often pitied one of the two people in a relationship for enduring what seems like constant bullshit or even borderline abuse. I know what that looks like from past experience. It takes two to tango, as they say. When you see a borderline shady couple together, who say or do questionable things in life, I often wonder if one of the two people is a bad influence on the other. I’ve seen couples that were quite different people before, during, and after the toxic relationship they were in together. There are quite a few ups and downs in a newer relationship. There’s a feeling-out process when you’re with someone new. Then things change over a number of years together. It’s important to choose who you’re with very carefully. Often when we are young, we tend to jump into relationships without doing our due diligence. We fail to make sure that the person we’re choosing to be with has not only our best interests in mind but their own as well. It’s not easy living with someone making poor life choices. <a href="https://medium.com/bouncin-and-behavin-blogs/youre-only-as-good-as-your-person-is-9b172f5282fd">Read More</a>