Hating Love, Loving Hate

My kink is macrophilia. I find gigantic women attractive, and I’m enamored of the idea of being shrunken down to a few inches tall to start a relationship with a normal-sized woman. The only thing weird about this is scale. Everything else about this fantasy — sensory overload, domination and submission, wanting to feel desired, momentarily shedding one’s burdens — is present in <a href="https://sexualhealthalliance.com/justin-lehmiller-science-of-fantasy" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">the most popular sexual fantasies</a> harbored by “normal” people in the United States. While macrophilia has never been formally studied, <a href="https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2018/7/6/what-i-learned-by-asking-4000-americans-about-their-biggest-sex-fantasies/" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Dr Justin Lehmiller</a> of the Kinsey Institute successfully polled over 4,000 Americans about their sexual fantasies, and the giantess fetish came up. It comes up in waves, in popular media. In 1999, Jon Bowen wrote a primer on Size Fantasy in “<a href="https://www.salon.com/1999/05/22/macrophilia/" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Urge: A Giant Fetish</a>” for Salon, the material of which was cannibalized for sensationalist pieces for a decade after. In this, Dr Helen Friedman, a clinical psychologist in St. Louis, shared her Freudian beliefs about what people should and should not be attracted to, suggesting macrophilia had no place in a healthy relationship. She went on to assert that no woman could possibly fantasize about giant men because they exist in a patriarchy and have no need to dream of obscenely powerful men. <a href="https://aborigen-gts.medium.com/hating-love-loving-hate-fdbf8fc70e19">Website</a>