White Supremacy has lurked in the dark corners of my life. It has tried endlessly to make me believe that it is ok for people to assume I am unintelligent, incapable, and unworthy. Growing up, (white) teachers assumed I was stupid until I proved myself otherwise. I was the only student of color. Clients don’t think I am in charge of my company in the presence of any white, male colleague.
I’m done giving my energy to the damning lie that has murdered my ancestors, stolen generations of Black dreams, self-confidence, and self-esteem. Its existence was designed to keep my people economically and ideologically subjugated. This lie compels people to code switch, chemically straighten their hair, submit to a gender binary and covers myriad truths of personal identity in order to gain acceptance, feign conformity, find employment, and even — attract love. This must stop.