Why I Hate Connie Maheswaran

<p>This statement: &ldquo;You look like Connie!&rdquo; boggled me the first time I heard it &ndash; mostly because I look&nbsp;<em>nothing</em>&nbsp;like her. I cannot possibly over-emphasise how unlike Connie I look. After hearing this a few more times, it hit me that when people said I looked like Connie, what they meant was: &ldquo;You&rsquo;re Indian, so I guess I&rsquo;ll mention the first Indian character I can think of.&rdquo; My individual appearance and culture do not matter here: Connie and I are interchangeable parts, beings boiled down to a single trait of national origin. Interestingly, Connie and I&nbsp;<em>do</em>&nbsp;share a background: her surname, Maheswaran, is a common male name in Southern India. Traditionally, her last name would be the first name of her father (or perhaps grandfather, like in my family) &ndash; but the show&rsquo;s creators, perhaps afraid of alienating their non-Tamil audience with this confusing naming scheme, opted to call him Doug instead.</p> <p><a href="https://aditi-ramaswamy.medium.com/why-i-hate-connie-maheswaran-ddcbd77b497b"><strong>Website</strong></a></p>