4 Habits of Emotionally Intelligent People

<p>As a psychologist, I work with a lot of people who want to improve their emotional intelligence.</p> <p>But despite all the inspiring podcasts and YouTube videos they consume, they still struggle with it:</p> <ul> <li>They get lost in spirals of worry and anxiety</li> <li>They get judgmental with themselves for how they feel</li> <li>They fall into self-sabotage as soon as they start moving forward</li> </ul> <p>The problem is&hellip;</p> <blockquote> <p>Emotional intelligence comes from consistent habits, not inspiring ideas.</p> </blockquote> <p>Here are four habits that will improve your emotional intelligence:</p> <h1>1. Letting go of unhelpful thoughts</h1> <p><em>More thinking isn&rsquo;t always a good thing &mdash; and often, it&rsquo;s the very thing making us miserable.</em></p> <p>Most of us grow up being taught to think long and hard:</p> <ul> <li>From the time we can talk, we&rsquo;re told to &ldquo;think before you speak.&rdquo;</li> <li>We get praise and attention for thinking hard and doing well in school.</li> <li>And as adults, our success at work largely depends on our ability to think carefully and creatively.</li> </ul> <p>But while our instinct to think more and think harder serves us well most of the time, there are still a lot of situations when more thinking makes things worse</p> <p><a href="https://nickwignall.medium.com/4-habits-of-emotionally-intelligent-people-310ddc4a96c2">Visit Now</a></p>