4 Habits of Emotionally Intelligent People
<p>As a psychologist, I work with a lot of people who want to improve their emotional intelligence.</p>
<p>But despite all the inspiring podcasts and YouTube videos they consume, they still struggle with it:</p>
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<li>They get lost in spirals of worry and anxiety</li>
<li>They get judgmental with themselves for how they feel</li>
<li>They fall into self-sabotage as soon as they start moving forward</li>
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<p>The problem is…</p>
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<p>Emotional intelligence comes from consistent habits, not inspiring ideas.</p>
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<p>Here are four habits that will improve your emotional intelligence:</p>
<h1>1. Letting go of unhelpful thoughts</h1>
<p><em>More thinking isn’t always a good thing — and often, it’s the very thing making us miserable.</em></p>
<p>Most of us grow up being taught to think long and hard:</p>
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<li>From the time we can talk, we’re told to “think before you speak.”</li>
<li>We get praise and attention for thinking hard and doing well in school.</li>
<li>And as adults, our success at work largely depends on our ability to think carefully and creatively.</li>
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<p>But while our instinct to think more and think harder serves us well most of the time, there are still a lot of situations when more thinking makes things worse</p>
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