1:1 - the essential tool for leaders
<p>I remember the first 1:1 sessions with engineers from my team. I approached them and asked for a short private meeting. I wanted to tell them that we would see each other every week and talk about their challenges. I wanted to express my commitment to developing their skills and overall helping them grow.</p>
<p>Instead… it was super awkward. Some of my teammates were really stressed. Shaking hands, breaking voice </p>
<p>It made me worried as well. <em>Is there something they want me to say?</em> I thought.</p>
<p>When I started a 1:1 discussion, a teammate asked me:</p>
<p><em>What is this meeting for? Am I fired?</em></p>
<p>The teammate was one of the most influential people on the team.</p>
<p>But.</p>
<p>We had never had 1:1 before. And I approached him out of the blue, interrupted in the middle of focus time, and asked for a private meeting.</p>
<p>I think his reaction was very reasonable.</p>
<h1>1:1 is an essential tool for leaders</h1>
<p>Every successful leader says that 1:1s is one of the essential things in their job. But for fresh managers, these sessions are tough.</p>
<p>I did hundreds of 1:1s in my career. Today I cannot imagine a better way of working with my teammates. But the early days were super hard.</p>
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