The One Thing I Said to My Husband When He Behaved Badly and Outrageously
<p>I can’t lie. At first, I had a predictable reaction when my husband began behaving outrageously. I ‘reacted’ to his sudden and uncharacteristic drinking.</p>
<p><strong>Ultimately, I got smarter.</strong></p>
<p><em>I said only one thing to my husband.</em></p>
<p><strong>But before I get to that one thing…</strong></p>
<p>I’ll share the pattern of predictable back-and-forth arguments between my husband and me. Some of them still shock me. They make me shake my head. Not only at my husband but at myself.</p>
<p>And I’ll share…</p>
<h2>The 5 mistakes I made along the way.</h2>
<p>Because somehow in situations like this, we tend to engage the badly behaving spouse.</p>
<p>When it’s the last thing we should ever attempt to do.</p>
<p>The first time my husband got drunk and angry I hadn’t been drinking. We had been at a friend’s house and it was time to leave to attend a family party.</p>
<p>There was no way I could take him to our nephew’s birthday in the shape he was in. I pulled into our driveway and whispered to him because I didn’t want our boys in the backseat to hear what I was saying.</p>
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