The six unusual secrets of the happiest people
<p>I’ve lived a life with plenty of unnecessary struggle, heartbreak and frustration.</p>
<p>I’ve always been interested in what separates generally happy people from those who seem to attract all the struggle and bad luck.</p>
<p>There are several ‘secrets’ shared by the happiest people I know. Here they are:</p>
<h1>Stopped searching.</h1>
<p>A curious thing happens when we do as 99% of humans do, which is to search for happiness: we become unhappy.</p>
<p>If we’re knowingly pursuing the illusion of ‘happiness’, we are unwittingly communicating to ourselves that we’re — you guessed it — not happy.</p>
<p><strong>The chase emphasises the lack.</strong></p>
<p>When I reveal to my clients they already have everything they need to be happy, right here, right now — I always enjoy watching the relief wash over them.</p>
<p>‘You mean I don’t need to get the girl or the Lambo to be happy?’ You can absolutely prioritise those things if you like.</p>
<p>But you do it from a place of wholeness and innate happiness.</p>
<p>When you approach life FROM happiness, you perform 100x better.</p>
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