One Secret to Happiness; Learning to Want What You Already Have

<p>The one thought that scares me more than losing my own life is the thought of losing someone close to me. Yet, that is precisely the frightening reality I confronted when my wife of thirty years was diagnosed with a life-threatening heart condition.</p> <p><em>And it may be one of the best things that ever happened to me.</em></p> <p>Why?</p> <p>Because it taught me an important lesson about how to live a happy life;&nbsp;<strong>the importance of wanting what you already have rather than getting what you want.</strong></p> <h1>My Story</h1> <p>I woke in the middle of the night to the cold realization that my wife might no longer be breathing. Earlier that day, she had undergone a routine medical exam and testing. Afterward, she handed me a piece of paper and asked what I thought.</p> <p>That piece of paper was the tracing from her electrocardiogram (ECG). I&rsquo;m a general surgeon and not a cardiologist or even an internal medicine doctor, so when I recognized this was dangerously abnormal, that should tell you it wasn&rsquo;t subtle.</p> <p>I could see that although her heart was generating a regular electrical signal to beat, it responded inconsistently.</p> <p><a href="https://betterhumans.pub/one-secret-to-happiness-learning-to-want-what-you-already-have-ac973f83372b">Click Here</a></p>