No Plus One, No Problem: The Art of Being Happily Single
<p>There was a time in my life when the allure of far-off places called to me like a siren’s song. I was enchanted by the idea of endless explorations and new encounters. So, I set off on a journey that led me to live and work on a cruise ship and later to Taiwan, where I spent a year teaching English and diving into a culture so different from my own. Those days were filled with a sense of liberation that’s hard to put into words.</p>
<p>Yet, even amidst this period of personal discovery and freedom, external voices began to chip away at my resolve. They weren’t loud, but they were persistent — nudges from society and familial expectations about settling down, especially as I hit my 30s. As many of us do, I folded under the weight of these external pressures. I returned to the United States and married a kind and caring individual.</p>
<p>But here’s the thing: even during my years of marriage, that deep-rooted yearning for unbridled freedom I once relished never left me. On the outside, my life appeared to be a well-curated story of societal benchmarks and grown-up achievements. However, deep within, there was an unmistakable sense that I was muffling a vital part of my true self. After nearly a decade in that relationship, I faced the difficult but freeing realization that I couldn’t keep living a life molded by others’ expectations. So, I made the challenging, yet necessary, decision to get divorced.</p>
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