Advice: “Disengaging from negative thoughts”
<p>Anon says,<em> “I’m a 26 year old black male who is losing weight and attracted to white women. I’ve never had a significant other. I was never a red piller (I think they’re grifters) but I always agreed with one thing that they said about women. I always agreed about thier point of women having easier lives. I’m more so an incel and am trying to not have negative thoughts about women. It recently came out that amouranth (popular female twitch streamer) made 57 million USD on onlyfans since starting it a few years back. I had to click off the video informing me because I was so enraged and disgusted. I nearly cried and banged on my bed because of how easy she and many other women have it. I’m 5 foot 6 and feel I need to hot a checklist of losing weight, getting some kind of limb lenghting surgery, and attaining better financial status to obtain a significant other. Even if I attain all of that i still feel like it wont make a massive difference because I look at women as this impossible boss fight from final fantasy. What can I do to overcome this doomer mindset?”</em></p>
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