“Men Don’t Marry the Woman They Love, They Marry the Woman in Front of Them”
<p>“Men marry the woman in front of them at the time they are ready to get married,” says <a href="https://nypost.com/2023/01/03/tiktoker-divides-internet-with-controversial-marriage-theory/" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Tiktoker Tay Talks</a>.</p>
<p>In a viral video, Tay explains that men don’t marry the woman they actually love the most, they marry the woman they’re dating when they consciously decide they’re ready to settle down.</p>
<p>The idea is that men will only see marriage as an option when they are emotionally and financially ready, and therefore will miss the opportunity of marrying their soulmate on account of bad timing.</p>
<p>According to this theory, all men have “one who got away” they often reminisce about.</p>
<p>As with all popular theories on romantic relationships, this one has some truth to it — but it would be a mistake to believe it applies to everyone.</p>
<p>Plenty of men marry women they’re madly in love with but at the same time, the most amazing, beautiful, thoughtful woman can’t make a man interested in marriage if marriage isn’t a part of his values, or if he’s not ready to get married.</p>
<h2>How men and women see marriage</h2>
<p>Women are brought up to fear wasting too much time in the search for a partner and missing the marriage “boat.” They’re not expected to consider for too long whether they’re ready for marriage or not, they’re expected to be ready pretty much the moment they become adults.</p>
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