This is How to Confront Discrimination Without Losing Friends

<blockquote> <p>&ldquo;I heard she got that job because they need to meet diversity targets.&rdquo;</p> </blockquote> <p>You&rsquo;re just trying to eat your lunch. You don&rsquo;t know the woman they&rsquo;re talking about. You could pretend you didn&rsquo;t hear. Statistically, that would be the wise choice.</p> <p>People that confront bias at work are less popular. They&rsquo;re seen as sensitive complainers. The penalty isn&rsquo;t as high if your demographics match the majority. In most European offices this means male and white. But even then, you&rsquo;ll still pay a price.</p> <p>It doesn&rsquo;t feel great to stay quiet.</p> <p>DEI teams encourage confrontation of micro-aggressions. HR do their best to put backlash protections in place. For an inclusive culture, we need employees to challenge discrimination when they see it.</p> <p>The reality is, you&rsquo;ll be taking a personal penalty to benefit the wider group. Scientists at the London Business School have found a way to at least lower the cost.</p> <p><strong>It&rsquo;s all about intention.&nbsp;</strong>More specifically, what other people&nbsp;<em>think</em>&nbsp;your intention is.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/management-matters/this-is-how-to-confront-discrimination-without-losing-friends-bcf49e3292ce"><strong>Visit Now</strong></a></p>
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