You’ll Find These 15 Qualities In The Best Life Partners

<p>If<strong>you feel like you&rsquo;ve fallen victim to negative dating patterns in the past, rest assured that you&rsquo;re not alone.</strong></p> <p>I have&nbsp;<a href="https://www.jamesmsama.com/PrivateCoaching" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank"><strong>worked with</strong></a>&nbsp;and spoken to&nbsp;<em>hundreds of people</em>&nbsp;who feel like they&rsquo;re spinning in circles when it comes to dating.</p> <p><em>Where are the good men/women?</em>&nbsp;Is anyone even interested in commitment anymore? How can we filter out the wrong people so we improve our chances of meeting the right ones?</p> <p>Here&rsquo;s one common thread I find:&nbsp;<strong>Focusing on the wrong qualities.</strong></p> <p>We live in a highly image-focused society. Our social media feeds look like magazine spreads. Our&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/JamesMSama" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram Reels</a><strong>&nbsp;</strong>look like blockbuster movies. Our selfies are carefully angled and lit to achieve an ideal look.</p> <p>This, among many other societal factors, has caused a shift in what we look for in our partners. Subsequently, we see the degradation of the &ldquo;LTR&rdquo; (Long term relationship) and it seems to become more difficult by the day to find someone who we can actually take seriously.</p> <p><strong>What if &mdash; then &mdash; we begun shifting what we were focusing on?</strong></p> <p>I never advocate for lowering your standards and I&rsquo;d certainly never advise a reader nor&nbsp;<a href="https://www.jamesmsama.com/PrivateCoaching" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank"><strong>a client</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;</strong>to settle for the wrong person just for the sake of being in a relationship.</p> <blockquote> <p>The wrong relationship will make you feel lonelier than staying single ever will.</p> </blockquote> <p>That being said, if we continue focusing on shorter-term qualities and traits, we could easily overlook the things that will actually help us&nbsp;<em>build and maintain a healthy relationship over time.</em></p> <p><a href="https://jamesmsama.medium.com/youll-find-these-15-qualities-in-the-best-life-partners-de93e4f0dbb8"><strong>Learn More</strong></a></p>
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