The Gratitude Trap
<p>Recently, I started an iPhone note document titled “The Words,” filled with all the words I hear so often that I hate them. This list includes the usual offenders, words like “mindfulness” and “community,” which have become so overused in the culture that they are almost meaningless. But my least favorite word of the moment, which has become the subject of multiple internal arguments, is “gratitude.”</p>
<p>Like many people, I was once a huge fan of gratitude, and giving thanks has been lauded as an essential part of the power of positive thinking. By simply writing down and reflecting on things you are grateful for daily, therapists, life coaches, and other health and wellness practitioners have spent decades <a href="https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/can-expressing-gratitude-improve-health" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">preaching that all we need in life is a little more gratitude and appreciation</a> for what we have. After jumping on the gratitude train, I not only spent years keeping gratitude journals, but back in 2019, I started a practice of writing my gratitude on index cards that I could place in a keepsake container to remind me of everything I should appreciate in life.</p>
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