When “Friendship” Feels More Like a Chore: A No-Nonsense Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries

<p><em>Ladies, has anyone else felt like some of your friendships lately have started to feel more like a second job than a source of fun and support?</em></p> <p>Don&rsquo;t get me wrong &mdash; as we get older, staying connected with friends does require more effort.</p> <p>Between careers, kids, relationships and everything else on our never-ending to-do lists, free time is a precious commodity these days.</p> <p><strong>But there comes a point where maintaining a friendship starts draining more energy than it gives back.</strong></p> <p>You find yourself constantly venting their problems, dropping everything to accommodate their last-minute requests, yet they&rsquo;re never there for you in return.</p> <p><img alt="" src="https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:875/0*y3Qm3owBbxUMzCu2" style="height:467px; width:700px" /></p> <p>Photo by&nbsp;<a href="https://unsplash.com/@enginakyurt?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">engin akyurt</a>&nbsp;on&nbsp;<a href="https://unsplash.com/?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Unsplash</a></p> <p><em>Sound familiar?</em></p> <p>I&rsquo;m here to tell you, as a fellow midlife mama who&rsquo;s been in those draining &ldquo;friendships&rdquo;, that it&rsquo;s okay to pull back and prioritize the relationships that truly enrich your life.</p> <p><em>You teach people how to treat you, so why let someone continue taking you for granted?</em></p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/coffee-cake/when-friendship-feels-more-like-a-chore-a-no-nonsense-guide-to-setting-healthy-boundaries-ef2dd861de6a"><strong>Click Here</strong></a></p>