To All the Asian Men I Never Loved — I’m Sorry

<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m just not into Asian guys,&rdquo; I would say flippantly as I dated my way through the rainbow of white, brown, black, and olive-skinned men.</p> <p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not sure why,&rdquo; I would say.</p> <p>I may not have known why I didn&rsquo;t like Asian men, but I did know that my preferences go way back. I recently found a journal entry I wrote as an 8-year-old declaring that I wanted to marry a blue-eyed blond man.</p> <p>It took me 20 years to finally realize that it wasn&rsquo;t an &ldquo;innate&rdquo; preference. I had been bathed in an infinite number of media sources and cultural innuendos suggesting to me that Asian men were meek, effeminate, and less endowed from the moment I was born.</p> <p><a href="https://humanparts.medium.com/to-all-the-asian-men-i-never-loved-im-sorry-395db2bb28f5"><strong>Website</strong></a></p>
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