5 Self-Actualizing Lessons I’ve Gained From Over Three Years In Therapy

<p>This year marks my third year of seeing a therapist.&nbsp;<strong>I can say with great confidence that I wouldn&rsquo;t be who I am today if not for the work that my therapist and I have been able to do in so many months.</strong></p> <p>I have learned so much about myself, the world, the way I show up, and how to be both a blessing to those around me and someone I can live with myself.</p> <p>And&nbsp;<strong>I&rsquo;m no gatekeeper of truth, light, and goodness</strong>, so I want to share a few key lessons that I&rsquo;ve learned that I believe everyone should have access to:</p> <h1>#1: Don&rsquo;t &ldquo;should&rdquo; all over yourself</h1> <p>When I first heard this phrase, I was hooked. I knew I needed it, and found it funny enough to stay in my memory well after I&rsquo;d learned it. We should all over ourselves all of the time.</p> <p>&ldquo;I should have done this&rdquo;, &ldquo;I should have said that&rdquo;, &ldquo;I should have known&rdquo;.&nbsp;<strong>All day every day we dwell on what could and should&rsquo;ve been,</strong>&nbsp;oftentimes highlighting our own mistakes, shortcomings, and what we &ldquo;should&rdquo; have been aware of.</p> <p><a href="https://katieelawrence.medium.com/5-self-actualizing-lessons-ive-gained-from-over-three-years-in-therapy-655c7ade75ba">Read More</a></p>