Tag: Estrangement

Almost seventeen years ago, my sister told me to never contact her again. In those seventeen years, so much has happened (or not happened). We have not attended each other’s weddings, she has never met my children, and she never got to know my husband Jeff. We have not celebrated any holidays ...

In an unmarked manila envelope that smells of mildew, I discover letters from opposite sides of my family’s Chinese-American divide. One is from my paternal great-grandfather W. Herbert Trescott, the other from my grandfather Liu Chengyu. These two consolation notes are emblematic of the divis...

An adult child cuts all ties from their parents — choosing to disconnect from what they believe is an unmanageable relationship. This is Estrangement, and it’s becoming progressively common in the last few years. It is painful and only talked about behind closed doors. This occu...