Dear Men: You Deserve So Much More Than The Hustle.

Lately, on X in particular, I’ve noticed a worrying trend: guys in their early 20s bragging about how they don’t take breaks, don’t spend time with loved ones, and do nothing but work nonstop. They call it a “flex,” proof of their dedication. But to me, it seems more like a sad cry for help. Believe me, I understand the appeal of hustle culture. I once bought into the myth, too. The idea is that if you grind hard enough for long enough, you’ll “make it” and finally be able to enjoy life. But for most people, that day never comes. There’s always a new goal on the horizon, and contentment stays frustratingly out of reach. I know because I’ve been there. I missed precious memories with my family and friends because I was obsessed with chasing career success. And I regret it deeply. Looking back now, those shared moments with the people I love meant so much more to me than anything I was working towards. But deep in the hustle culture, I was blind to what mattered. I’ve also lost too many close friends at a young age to suicide and addiction. Friends I think of often and wish I could see again. If I got the chance, I’d tell them about the birthday parties, family vacations, nights out dancing, meals cooked together, and all the other amazing experiences I’ve had. The real texture of life. It's not mundane stuff like how many Twitter followers I have or clients I’ve landed. I think societal pressure drives so many young men down this path. This outdated idea is that part of being a man is never stopping the hustle, never taking a break, always grinding to provide, and being the breadwinner financially. But constantly working doesn’t make you more of a man. It often has the opposite effect — burnout, depression, loneliness, and a nagging sense that you’re missing out on life. <a href="https://joanwestenberg.medium.com/dear-men-you-deserve-so-much-more-than-the-hustle-7c1fd0ca2f8">Visit Now</a>