The Art of Owning Our Vulnerabilities
<p>There is a common misconception that being vulnerable makes us weak, but how true is that?</p>
<p>For me, being vulnerable is about embracing our imperfections, acknowledging our weaknesses, and not trying to hide them from the world.</p>
<p><em>Don’t try to be perfect, because it not only puts pressure on you but also traps you in being the version that might never exist.</em></p>
<p>So, when I suggest being vulnerable, I don’t mean going all out, sharing all your pains and suffering with the world. As Berne Brown says you share with people who have earned the right to hear your story.</p>
<p>Also, when we embrace our vulnerabilities, we become more resilient when confronted with them, which results in avoiding unnecessary panic.</p>
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<p>Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome.</p>
<p>— Brené Brown</p>
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<h1>Why do we fear our vulnerabilities?</h1>
<p>First, as I have mentioned already we see it as our weakness. I am accepting it because, for the longest time, I have seen it that way too.</p>
<p>Most of all, I had fear of all the emotional baggage and judgments being vulnerable brought. And I wasn’t ready to handle that.</p>
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