UNF***ABLE: a ‘game’ about how swiping erodes your self

<p>This project has been something that&rsquo;s been at the back of my mind for a couple years now. After months of working on it, dozens of conversations discussing it, it&rsquo;s&nbsp;<a href="https://bighandinsky.itch.io/dating" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">finally out to the world</a>.</p> <p>And I&rsquo;m happy that I finally managed to realise it; but I feel that, even with all the writing within it, there&rsquo;s context missing? Naturally this topic &mdash; using dating apps for years without matches &mdash; is large, opaque, and personal. Summarising it is also opaque: there are countless moments of mental change missed, countless thoughts, worries, and learnings over the years that have to be compressed into any sentence I write in the game.</p> <p>So this post is, in a way, my artist&rsquo;s statement. Details for why I made this project, why I wrote what I did, and what I hope people get from it (inspired by Robert Yang&rsquo;s&nbsp;<a href="https://www.blog.radiator.debacle.us/2022/06/zugzwang.html" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">post for Zugzwang</a>).</p> <p>It gets into the same mud the game does: how modern dating &amp; the (western) culture we live in can set up a 20-something guy to be miserable as we try to find our way towards this &lsquo;estranged miracle&rsquo; called love.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/@bighandinsky/unf-able-a-game-about-how-swiping-erodes-your-self-7db364d00c7a"><strong>Visit Now</strong></a></p>
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