Statistically, You Will Marry the Wrong Person. Here’s Why.
<p>Once upon a time, I met the person I’d been asking the universe for. We even met in the exact way I would have wanted to.</p>
<p>I was on a solo rock-climbing road trip and through a series of fateful and unlikely events, we happened to be the only two people staying on a remote farm.</p>
<p>The first evening we met, we had a deep conversation late into the night. From that moment on, we were joined at the hip. We had a roaring adventure — climbing, making love, and road-tripping our way through the country. We poured our souls out and helped each other through tough times. By the end of that road trip, I had committed to moving to his state.</p>
<p>It seemed like the perfect fairy tale. And yet, it wasn’t.</p>
<p>There wasn’t a single moment where I was emotionally secure but there were many moments where I felt deeply lonely.</p>
<p>It was confusing. Wasn’t this exactly what I wanted?</p>
<p>I realized now that I had told the universe what I wanted to <strong><em>do</em></strong> in a relationship but not how I wanted to <strong><em>feel</em></strong>.</p>
<p>Outwardly — we had the same lifestyle goals, the same passions, and the same interests. Inwardly — we communicated feelings differently, resolved conflicts in polar opposite ways, and had mindsets that didn’t align.</p>
<p>We broke up.</p>
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