Statistically, You Will Marry the Wrong Person. Here’s Why.

<p>Once upon a time, I met the person I&rsquo;d been asking the universe for. We even met in the exact way I would have wanted to.</p> <p>I was on a solo rock-climbing road trip and through a series of fateful and unlikely events, we happened to be the only two people staying on a remote farm.</p> <p>The first evening we met, we had a deep conversation late into the night. From that moment on, we were joined at the hip. We had a roaring adventure &mdash; climbing, making love, and road-tripping our way through the country. We poured our souls out and helped each other through tough times. By the end of that road trip, I had committed to moving to his state.</p> <p>It seemed like the perfect fairy tale. And yet, it wasn&rsquo;t.</p> <p>There wasn&rsquo;t a single moment where I was emotionally secure but there were many moments where I felt deeply lonely.</p> <p>It was confusing. Wasn&rsquo;t this exactly what I wanted?</p> <p>I realized now that I had told the universe what I wanted to&nbsp;<strong><em>do</em></strong>&nbsp;in a relationship but not how I wanted to&nbsp;<strong><em>feel</em></strong>.</p> <p>Outwardly &mdash; we had the same lifestyle goals, the same passions, and the same interests. Inwardly &mdash; we communicated feelings differently, resolved conflicts in polar opposite ways, and had mindsets that didn&rsquo;t align.</p> <p>We broke up.</p> <p><a href="https://betterhumans.pub/statistically-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person-heres-why-17931d99e9e0"><strong>Read More</strong></a></p>