Too afraid to show my hands — overcoming the fear of letting others see our designs

<p>Ican still recall the day in 1991, the room, and her name. My classmate Dana looked at my hands during an activity in elementary school and gasped,&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;Eww, your hands are gross! Why are they so ugly?&rdquo;</em>&nbsp;I promptly pulled them away from the table and hid them in my pocket.&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;My hands are gross?&rdquo;</em>, I thought.&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;What&rsquo;s wrong with my hands?&rdquo;</em></p> <p>My young, confused mind raced all day.</p> <p>Until then, I&rsquo;d lived 11 years without ever noticing, caring about, or thinking there was something wrong with my hands. But this comment changed all of that. When I got home, I slowly took my hands out of my pockets and drummed up the courage to look at them. I flipped them over. Examined them. They were in fact dry, and flaky. They had freckles and an oddly placed mole on my left hand. They looked old, cracked, and worn. I couldn&rsquo;t see the pores in my hands like all the other kids&rsquo; hands.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/mikewcurtis/too-afraid-to-show-my-hands-overcoming-the-fear-to-let-others-see-our-designs-a5875ea169b6"><strong>Visit Now</strong></a></p>
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