But where are you really from?

<p>&ldquo;But where are you&nbsp;<em>really</em>&nbsp;from? I only ask this question because I&rsquo;m genuinely curious,&rdquo; said an acquaintance of mine when quizzing a non-white woman who happened to share a dinner table with us at a social event. &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t understand why some people find such a question inappropriate,&rdquo; she confided in me after dinner.</p> <p>This conversation took place in a post-lockdown summer of 2020. But the memory of it popped back to my mind after an incident I observed just about a week ago.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/@dragonsnest/but-where-are-you-really-from-02947afdd18e"><strong>Learn More</strong></a></p>