I have a hard time accepting how empty the “men are trash” vs. “not all men” discourse feels. I feel it should be possible to hold space for women’s experiences without talking about masculinity like it’s a genetic disease.
Am I wrong? Can’t we hold space for both? I mean, I get where each camp is coming from but it just frustrates me how we can’t seem to escape this endless loop of polarization. It doesn’t feel like we’re getting anywhere.