Can kindness be sexy?
<p>I used to feel confused when people thought I was attractive. It’s not because I have low confidence; I love myself and know that people love me too. It’s also not because of my past experiences; I’ve attracted both men and women. I’m pretty sure I rank high in attractiveness to Asian gay girls, and Argentinian boys and girls have asked me on dates and told me I’m cute and hot. Strangers ask for my contact on the street.</p>
<p>Despite this, I don’t particularly find myself attractive. The wholesome energy I give out seems to be quite contradictory to how society defines “attractiveness” or “sexy.” Sexy often implies being slutty, bad, or sensual, and it’s quite apparent that is not the energy I carry.</p>
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