Can kindness be sexy?

<p>I used to feel confused when people thought I was attractive. It&rsquo;s not because I have low confidence; I love myself and know that people love me too. It&rsquo;s also not because of my past experiences; I&rsquo;ve attracted both men and women. I&rsquo;m pretty sure I rank high in attractiveness to Asian gay girls, and Argentinian boys and girls have asked me on dates and told me I&rsquo;m cute and hot. Strangers ask for my contact on the street.</p> <p>Despite this, I don&rsquo;t particularly find myself attractive. The wholesome energy I give out seems to be quite contradictory to how society defines &ldquo;attractiveness&rdquo; or &ldquo;sexy.&rdquo; Sexy often implies being slutty, bad, or sensual, and it&rsquo;s quite apparent that is not the energy I carry.</p> <p><a href="https://lampmaa22.medium.com/can-kindness-be-sexy-1812595caf23"><strong>Read More</strong></a></p>
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