Is It Mature Or Immature Love?
<p>L<strong>ove may not be something we traditionally consider as being “mature” or “immature,” but the truth is that our ability to — and ways of loving will <em>mature</em> (verb) over time just as we do.</strong></p>
<p>We can easily see the evolution in ourselves and our relationships over time (<em>hopefully</em>) if we’ve grown as a person. We learn how to handle conflict, to compromise, to be patient, and to live in harmony with another.</p>
<p>How, then, do <strong>mature </strong>and <strong>immature</strong> love differ from each other?</p>
<h1>1: Mature love is peaceful, immature love is chaotic.</h1>
<p>Think of the turmoil and drama in life’s earliest relationships — raging hormones, two wild kids trying to figure each other (and themselves) out. Curiosity about the world, other people, how things work…</p>
<p>And, lack of clarity around self and identity.</p>
<p>This recipe creates an environment where <em>peace</em> seems elusive and chaos seems the norm. We are more <em>attached to</em> each other than <em>in love with</em> each other, and it shows through the emotional eruptions that happen as the tectonic plates of our lives shift underneath us.</p>
<p>However — as we grow and mature, we (hopefully) become more settled and at peace. At peace with our lives, with our routines, and most of all — with ourselves.</p>
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