Expressed through Words, Affirmed by Actions: do our preferred love languages evolve?
<p>I am sat on the central line right now thinking about the warm words from my mother this morning – my sweet sweet Oluyinka! I sent her a picture of how I looked to work today and she responded “Looking cool and beautiful as ever!, My sweet daughter who has brought me so much joy!”. This message made me grin so much and was probably the highlight of my very packed. and eventful day.</p>
<p>My heart has recently taken a liking to expressions of affection through words and affirmations through words. I find it quite amusing as I was very confident this could never move me about a year ago. I had always been the biggest advocate for two of the five love languages for the longest time – Acts of Service being first and Quality time being second.</p>
<p>I think the more I grow and continue to evolve emotionally, my love languages seem to be evolving as well. As a 20 year old, connection to me meant regular hugs and body contact in one way or the other – Physical Touch. At 24, I craved a sense of connection through actions – Acts of Service. Quality time was a tough contender but as an adult juggling life and a demanding career, I think quality time comes in different forms these days.</p>
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