If You Gossip (Even Unconsciously), You Are Inviting Misery Back Into Your Life (How to Stop It)

Okay, let me start first. I am a good person with a good heart and no bad intentions for anyone. And I am sure, you will say ‘Well, me too.’ Guess what did I know? The thing we all think well of ourselves. We live in our own illusionary bubble where we are the most honest and loving people in this world whereas no one as sweet as us exists in the world as a whole. No worries, I am not saying you are a bad person. I am sure you are as good as me. But you are not as excellent and mighty as you think of yourself. You and I are humans at the end of the day and knowingly or unknowingly, we end up making mistakes or doing things that we absolutely hate. But your ego doesn’t let you admit that you did something wrong. So, what do we do? <blockquote> You keep living in your imaginary bubble where the most honest and loving person is YOU. </blockquote> One of the most common mistakes or dreadful habits we all have is — gossiping. I know you might say, ‘But Renuka, I don’t gossip. In fact, I hate people who gossip.’ I say the same thing. I LOVE those people who don’t gossip and I love giving advice on ‘not to gossip’ but sometimes, unconsciously, I end up gossiping like talking about a person I knew in college, and no matter how hard I try to control, I end up adding a few things that if you listen will be labeled as ‘gossip.’ And then I hate myself at the end of the call for saying things about a person who didn’t do anything wrong to me or has nothing to do with me. How very Bad RENUKA!! The thing is we are living in an era where no one’s life is private and as Taylor Swift once said, “We live in a world where anybody has the right to say anything about you at any time.” <a href="https://medium.com/change-your-mind/if-you-gossip-even-unconsciously-you-are-inviting-misery-back-into-your-life-how-to-stop-it-d970825eb8c9">Website</a>