Ditch the Fairy Godmother

<p>Once Upon a Time in Reality Land&hellip;</p> <p>Imagine being Cinderella. You&rsquo;re sweeping the ashes, singing to the birds, when your fairy godmother suddenly pops by and turns your pumpkin into a stylish Uber. Sweet, right? But, what if Cinderella had set a more realistic goal like: &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to save enough money from my chores to buy a horse and cart by the end of the year.&rdquo; Well, that&rsquo;s a goal that doesn&rsquo;t need magic and is also sustainable. Sorry, Fairy G, but Cinderella&rsquo;s got a PLAN.</p> <p>Let&rsquo;s not kid ourselves. We all love magic. The idea of waving a wand and our problems disappearing? Count me in! But when setting goals and achieving dreams, waiting for a fairy godmother might mean waiting forever. How about we ditch the fairy tales and dive deep into real-life goals?</p> <p><strong>Sprinkle a Little Reality on Your Dream Pie</strong></p> <p><strong>1. The &lsquo;SMART&rsquo; Spell:</strong>&nbsp;No, it&rsquo;s not a new charm from Hogwarts. It&rsquo;s a simple yet powerful formula to ensure your goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Want to write a book? Instead of saying, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ll write a book someday,&rdquo; try, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ll write 500 words daily for the next six months.&rdquo;</p> <p><strong>2. Beware of the &lsquo;Rapunzel Syndrome&rsquo;:</strong>&nbsp;Some folks, bless their hearts, believe that if they wait in a tower (or a couch, same thing), someone will eventually climb up and give them what they want. Instead of waiting for a prince (a publishing deal or a lottery win), climb down that tower yourself.</p> <p><a href="https://medium.com/illumination/ditch-the-fairy-godmother-c91258f6c800">Read More</a></p>