Living abroad isn’t just about snapping Insta-worthy shots or finding the best street food (although, let’s be honest, those are pretty significant perks). It’s a journey into the heart of who you are, especially when you’re like me — an Asian American who’s navigated the globe from Oman to Australia, with pitstops in India, Thailand, Singapore, Indonesia, you name it. Now, settled in New Zealand, I find myself reflecting on this whirlwind of cultures, experiences, and the surprising lessons they’ve taught me about my own identity.
The Humble Beginnings: Oman, the Unexpected Teacher
Oman was never on my radar — I mean, who grows up dreaming of the Middle Eastern desert when there’s the glitz of NYC or the charm of Paris? But life has a funny way of throwing you curveballs. Living in Oman, amidst its rich culture and stark landscapes, I learned something crucial — simplicity can be profoundly beautiful. In the intricate designs of the mosques and the unhurried pace of life, I found a reflection of my own Asian heritage’s values — respect, community, and a deep connection to history. It was like looking into a mirror and seeing a part of myself I never knew existed.