The Art of Guilt Trips: A Masterclass by Asian Parents

Growing up, I realized that these guilt trips weren’t merely random expressions of disappointment or frustration. They were, in fact, deeply rooted in a rich tapestry of culture and tradition. In many Asian cultures, there’s a strong emphasis on filial piety — a value that emphasizes respect and duty towards one’s parents and ancestors. It’s not just a moral guideline; it’s a foundational block of our identity. When my mom would say, “After all we’ve done for you, this is how you repay us?” it wasn’t just a rhetorical question. It was a reminder of the sacrifices made, the hopes carried, and the expectations that come with being part of a family. It’s a sentiment echoed in countless Asian American households, a collective narrative that binds us in shared understanding and, sometimes, shared frustration. <a href="https://medium.com/asian-mosaic/the-art-of-guilt-trips-a-masterclass-by-asian-parents-5f9a92a34ab3">Read More</a>